Marriage in Tajikistan

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(Day 1, for Monday, 1 September, coinciding with Ramadan 2008)

A Muslim Woman’s empty dreams

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Tonight, the respected businessman Sharif is going to visit Nazira’s family. On the telephone he said he wants to talk with her father about a new car, but Nazira knows the real reason for his visit. Nazira is already 24 years old and single. For quite some time her family has been looking around for a potential husband for her. However, that is not so easy. Farud, for example, who wanted to marry her three months ago, is an alcoholic, like many people in Tajikistan.

Evening came and Sharif visited Nazira’s family. Since the civil war of the 1990’s, this Central Asian country is slowly recuperating and business is steadily growing. Sharif is one who is doing well economically. His house has running water with regular electricity and he drives a German car. In Tajikistan the estimated average annual income is around 250 Euros per person, but Sharif is one of the exceptions. He already had two wives and Nazira will become his third. It seems obvious that Sharif is a good candidate. Quickly the parents agree and arrangements are made. The wedding will take place in the coming two weeks. Everyone is happy, however Nazira realises that some of her cherished dreams will not come true.

It is estimated that the number of Tajikistan workers in Russia number about one million. Since there are only seven million people in Tajikistan, this means that a large percentage of the male population is away from home. Women and children are in the majority. In the villages the women live amid tensions between old traditions, atheism and a new wave of radical Islam.

Tajikistan believers were few and far between even when there was freedom of religion. Now worries about radical Islam are being countered with new laws to restrict the rights of small religious groups. These laws also affect Christians.

Prayer Starters

* Pray for increasingly healthy and Biblically oriented families among the followers of Jesus in this nation.

* Pray for the many Tajik men in surrounding countries to be reached with the Good News.

* Pray that Tajikistan believers can develop more and more their own style of worship in their own language.

* Pray in small groups for women like Nazira, remembering many Muslim women receive dreams from Jesus.

Did you know:

LIMITED NUMBER OF WIVES
Mohammed limited the number of wives in Islamic marriage to four spouses. Previously some men had been marrying many more women than they could support financially. According to Muslim scholars women were better treated in Arabia following the rise of Islam than previously. Islam recognizes that men are especially weak in the sexual realm. The possibility of having four wives is seen as a limit on man’s sexual urges and thus gives stability to society.


Sights and Sounds from Tajikistan (2:25)


Background Material on Tajikistan can be found here >>

Gospel Language Recording: Hear the Gospel in Tajik (external link, opens a new window)

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4 Responses to “Marriage in Tajikistan”

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    JP Says:

    There’s also some evidence out there that there that polyandry existed on the Peninsula before Mohammed (bpuh), and therefore Mohammed made things worse for women.

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    Jen Says:

    You mention a limit of four wives. Does this include “pleasure marriages?” I believe that is what it is called. A friend from a Muslim country was explaining to me that sometimes men will marry women, have sex with her, and then there is something of an annulment shortly thereafter.

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    JP Says:

    Jen- muta’a marriage- temporary marriage- is practiced only by Shi’i, and not Sunni, the majority of Muslims. It is sometimes a way around the polygamy laws in the US, when Shi’i Muslims want more than one wife, and so will have a muta’a marriage for one, but not a civil marriage. Some muta’a marriages last for life; most do not.

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