Marriage in Tajikistan

A Muslim Woman’s empty dreams

Tonight, the respected businessman Sharif is going to visit Nazira’s family. On the telephone he said he wants to talk with her father about a new car, but Nazira knows the real reason for his visit. Nazira is already 24 years old and single. For quite some time her family has been looking around for a potential husband for her. However, that is not so easy. Farud, for example, who wanted to marry her three months ago, is an alcoholic, like many people in Tajikistan.tadjikistan-dreams-30-days-net

The Agreement

Evening came and Sharif visited Nazira’s family. Since the civil war of the 1990′s, this Central Asian country is slowly recuperating and business is steadily growing. Sharif is one who is doing well economically. His house has running water with regular electricity and he drives a German car. In Tajikistan the estimated average annual income is around 250 Euros per person, but Sharif is one of the exceptions. He already had two wives and Nazira will become his third. It seems obvious that Sharif is a good candidate. Quickly the parents agree and arrangements are made. The wedding will take place in the coming two weeks. Everyone is happy, however Nazira realises that some of her cherished dreams will not come true.

It is estimated that the number of Tajikistan workers in Russia number about one million. Since there are only seven million people in Tajikistan, this means that a large percentage of the male population is away from home. Women and children are in the majority. In the villages the women live amid tensions between old traditions, atheism and a new wave of radical Islam.

Few Believers

Tajikistan believers were few and far between even when there was freedom of religion. Now worries about radical Islam are being countered with new laws to restrict the rights of small religious groups. These laws also affect Christians.

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Flag of Tajikistan

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Map of Tajikistan

Prayer Starters

* Pray for increasingly healthy and Biblically oriented families among the followers of Jesus in this nation.

* Pray for the many Tajik men in surrounding countries to be reached with the Good News.

* Pray that Tajikistan believers can develop more and more their own style of worship in their own language.

* Pray in small groups for women like Nazira, remembering many Muslim women receive dreams from Jesus.

Did you know:

LIMITED NUMBER OF WIVES
Mohammed limited the number of wives in Islamic marriage to four spouses. Previously some men had been marrying many more women than they could support financially. According to Muslim scholars women were better treated in Arabia following the rise of Islam than previously. Islam recognizes that men are especially weak in the sexual realm. The possibility of having four wives is seen as a limit on man’s sexual urges and thus gives stability to society.

Video: Sights and Sounds from Tajikistan


Comments

  1. Not very good rights – always being less than the man – and, according to one hadith, when mohammed was shown a vision of hell, “the vast majority were women”

    http://answering-islam.org/Women/in-hell.html

    So, despite having fewer rights and privileges during life, they still get treated worse in the afterlife.

    Not very good rights to speak of.

    Besides, this “Islam was the first religion to give rights to women” doesn’t even bear up to analysis. In pagan religions, women were often venerated long before islam came into existence.

  2. ya

  3. Fatima I dont who ur calling lazy? “muslim women” who are in polygamous marriages?? Anyways I do think that polygamy can be good or can be bad, if all parties involved in the marriage agree to it then yes it works, also helping women in need like widows and older women to get married makes it easier to swallow polygamy in these circumtances, otherwise then it is a living hell especially for women. In muslim countries you cannot get divorce easily like a man, you have to have a legitimate reason like a harm from the husband either be it physical or financial by not paying are the most common grounds for divorce, however psychological harm is extremely hard to prove and almost impossible and in most cases not taken into account, many women in polygamous marriages suffer psychological harm because they are forced into polygamous marriage or is lied to as being the “only one” when the hubby is actually married secretly to another women and when the wife knows about it she is legaly not able to get a divorce unless she wants to pay her way out of marraige under a system called “khulaa”. By “forced’ into polygamous marriage I mean socially pressured to get married at a certain age which drives a women to accept any man including married even if she does not want to be in a polygamous marriage, also when a woman is in a society where all men are polygamous she has no other…

  4. That’s not the full Hadith . They are also the majority in Aljannah .

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