Comments on: Dating Muslim Men

By: Emily Elizabeth

Emily Elizabeth — Mon, 16 Jan 2012 17:11:37 +0000

Thank you! I’m running out of this relationship, tomorrow is late for me, and i know that i could do better, i feel sorry for this first wife, they have 3 children. and he dosen’t care too much he wants to have more and i wont be his ginny pig; thats a big no cant do.
we have to read, open are eyes and close out heart and feelings somethings because when he charm is over, everithing will be. am closing up for a while.
Thank you!

By: Hope

Hope — Mon, 16 Jan 2012 16:55:02 +0000

Oh Emily Elizabeth!

Sweetie, you know what to do! You are in great danger. Your future and your eternity is in great danger. This man’s eternal life is in great danger.

You know what the right thing to do is. You want us to spell it out for you.

Here are the facts: Soon you might find yourself as wife number three or four, pregnant and alone, isolated from Jesus and all the good things the Lord had planned for you.

You have a soft heart and you’re not strong enough to break free. But RUN to the Lord Jesus! John 8:36 says “If the Son (Jesus) therefore shall make you free, you shall be free indeed.”

Think of yourself in 20, or 30 years’ time. Where will you be? Alone looking after fatherless children while your man is with the latest wife? Think of your future.

This man might not love you at all – it might simply be an obsession. If this is so, the flame will soon die within him and you will be faced with the consequences.

Run to Jesus now!

By: Emily Elizabeth

Emily Elizabeth — Mon, 16 Jan 2012 15:58:25 +0000

ok, i need advise pronto, my muslim boyfriend told me that he is devorced two years ago, and he wanst to marry me and i want to marry him but suddenly i receive a call of his wife, there still married and she dosen’t aprrove me… what I’m supposse to do, i dont understand, he told me that there allowed to have 4 wifes but the firts one has to say yes, he devorsed her, left the house and bought a house for us…. now shes harrasing me every single day… i told him that i wanted to stop this relationship and he dosen’t whant to to finish it…

i dont know what to do.././

By: Hope

Hope — Mon, 16 Jan 2012 06:42:51 +0000

Hi “Juliet”,
Welcome here – hope we Christians on the site don’t intimidate you too much. The Christian walk is quite an experience, but some of us tend to talk “Christianese” (I know I do) and please remind me if I become a bit irritating in that way at times (it won’t be intentional).

So… you also have a horrible experience. It’s a good thing you’ve shared this, and a good warning about being careful about guys in general, especially those who are so charming. (And yes, who abuse their charm). It is true that some of the Middle Eastern men are incredibly charming – it’s a fact as their culture is infused with amazing poetry.

I get what you’re saying about that form of marriage – yes, in the religious sense, a sexual connection in a relationship basically does constitute a marriage, as there are soul ties formed, etc.

Despite your tongue-in-cheek style, it’s obvious you really did love that man and were hurt – and in your own way, you’d like to warn other women. Thanks for that.

You’re welcome to hang out with us but please do be aware that a lot of religious people visit the site – and your lighthearted manner could be misinterpreted (especially by some of the devout Muslims that visit the site).

Also, some of us might misunderstand and assume you’re merely trying to promote your website/book. Therefore, your comments won’t be taken…

By: Ann

Ann — Mon, 16 Jan 2012 00:36:19 +0000

why is this juliet person advertising her book here??? too funny……………….

By: Juliet Montague

Juliet Montague — Sun, 15 Jan 2012 22:25:29 +0000

I just wanted to ad that I was …I still am and forever will be in love with my Muslim sweetheart. But I may have got a lemon, as they say. We married on my couch with no one around but my two male dogs. He constantly reminded me that he could go out and get three more wives any time without telling me. I thought I would just enjoy him until he flew off on a magic carpet never to return. I had to end it, however, when he started carrying a knife and continued to remind me that sex with small children was perfectly okay. Yes, right here in Hollywood, California. My handsome Aladdin is a graduate of UCLA. He’s out there looking for a new wife.

By: Hope

Hope — Wed, 28 Dec 2011 09:34:28 +0000

It’s awesome that your children have a choice Ann.

It reminds me of one of my Indian friends who met up with Christ during her marriage. The gradual changes in her must have become clearly evident, and the manner in which she treated her husband were such that he pretended not to notice as she drew closer to the Lord. It’s taken years but the other day, her husband gave her quite a shock! He grumpily complained that it just wasn’t right to bring up their children without religious traditions… she was expecting the worst, when he then said, still pretending to be grumpy: “So we’ll just have to start taking the children to church!” Wow, just shows what a wife’s patient love can achieve, as the Lord works invisibly!

By: Ann

Ann — Wed, 28 Dec 2011 02:24:19 +0000

I was implying we as we the wives who are writing on this websites….website is on dating muslim men!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

By: Jo

Jo — Tue, 27 Dec 2011 22:07:23 +0000

Anne
In your post of 24th Dec you said “your children have the choice to fast during Ramadan”. yet in your most recent post you call yourselves Christians, does that mean they are being raised Christian? if so why are they given a choice to fast during Ramadan??????

By: Ann

Ann — Mon, 26 Dec 2011 21:31:08 +0000

At least I know my husband and where he comes from. I have been back to his country and you know what…his family embraced me for me and not this woman who is so called supposed to convert to Islam. I also keep in touch on a daily basis with a few members of his family, which is more than I can say about my own immediate family. Amazing how the media protrays the muslims and the Arabs. I had no problem with ready the Quran and it made me understand who he is and what his beliefs are.
Just think these if I had listened to what my friends and family said to me before I married him and not done it, I would never have the 2 main lights in my life…my 2 sons. And you know what we all call ourselves Christians…well I married my man who in fact comes from the Holy land.